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Becoming Resourceful & Losing 50lbs

10/8/2019

Last week I shared this story about Jack on my social media. Wanted to pass it along here for those without social media. Hoping Jack can inspire you too.

Meet Jack. 50 lbs lighter and feeling amazing!

For the past 3 years, I’ve had the privilege to do a nutrition talk to a local company (NOVO) once per month.

Jack is a guy that works at the hotel where the meeting takes place and he is responsible for setting up the room and bringing out the food for the group of 60-70 employees attending the meeting.

Today, he came up to me and shared that he lost 50lbs in the past 6 months. He did it after getting inspired by some of the nutrition talks I presented, but primarily a talk I did on my Grandma and the power of eating in moderation (She lived till 100 and past away earlier this year). For some reason that talk resonated with Jack and he completely transformed his life.

Besides the weight loss, he no longer needs cholesterol meds, blood pressure meds and his blood sugar is back to normal. His blood panel is “shockingly “ healthy according to his doctor.

The moral of the story—besides acknowledging the hard work of Jack and acknowledging Grandma—is YOU have the power to choose. You can choose to be resourceful and figure out ways to overcome challenges in order to get where you want to go.

You don’t need all the tools right in front of you. You actually have a lot more tools than you think. We live in the information era where so much information is right at your fingertips by way of your phone!

You don’t need the perfect moment. Work with what you have and develop the habit of becoming resourceful.
I think the moment you start to look at challenges as something that is part of life--and not something meant to stop you from pursuing your goals-- you learn to become resourceful... and that is a powerful thing.

Jack simply listened to the presentations in passing while he was working and he made the decision to take action and develop new habits in his life. He started eating healthier, and he started to move a little bit more.
He didn't have a gym membership, fancy food delivered to his home, a nutritionist or a personal trainer.

He worked with the information he received, got inspired to learn some more on his own and turned knowledge into action.

Once Big Mo (Momentum) came along and he started seeing results, he just kept going and developed some non-negotiable rules in his life.

I encourage you to do the same. What is a change that you’d like to make in your life at the moment? Can you develop micro habits on a daily basis that are non-negotiable?

How can you get more proactive about making it happen? What is an action step that you can do today in order to head towards those changes. One step at a time.

If you need help with the first step, let us know! We are here for you.

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Post Baby 40lbs Weight Loss

9/17/2019

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For this week's inspiration, we got a chance to catch up with Erica Day. She joined K-Fit earlier this year with the intention to get in better shape after her second child. Since joining, she has lost 20 pounds (40+ since baby)! She always brings a good energy to her sessions and we're lucky to have her as part of the K-Fit Family.

1) Where's your Hometown?
Reisterstown, Maryland (outside of Baltimore). I moved to the Bay Area in 2008 after graduate school for a job in San Francisco. We've slowly made our way down to the Peninsula over the last decade.

2) Share 3 Fun Facts about yourself.

a) I married my high school sweetheart, Paul. (we met when we were both 14, dated all of high school, took a 6 year break during college and grad school, and then got back together when I moved to CA for a job; he was here doing his PhD at Stanford)
b) I have an older brother named Eric
c) I secretly wish I could be a professional hip hop dancer

3) Favorite (Healthy) Food
For me, good healthy food is simple. So, anything that uses whole, clean ingredients is a favorite of mine. I've learned over the years less is more when it comes to food and really try to keep it simple at home for me and my family.
If the ingredient list has a bunch of stuff in it I can't pronounce, I avoid it (this is not to say we don't indulge and not buy junk food because we do! Just in moderation :) ).
My ultimate favorite healthy food though (as lame as it sounds) is just a big salad with lots of different in-season veggies with some added protein on top and a homemade salad dressing.
We pretty much eat that every Monday night at home and I just rotate what the protein is and put whatever vegetables I've gotten that week from the Farmer's Market in the salad.

4) Share a little about your story on why you decided to get fit again...
I've played sports since the 6th grade and played Division I field hockey at Georgetown so working out has always been part of my routine.
After my first kid (Gabrielle, aged 4 now) I had a really hard time getting back into shape and fitting into my old clothes. I never lost all my baby weight from her (and I gained a whopping 50lbs with her!) and felt terrible about where I was physically.
I had a really hard time fitting in working out and it took me a good year to finally get a routine down.
At that time I was doing mostly CrossFit type workouts and while I liked them, I didn't lean out as much as I wanted to - my body type just seemed to bulk up with those types of workouts.
Then, I got pregnant with my second kid and while I was MUCH better the second time around about my weight gain, I still got big by the end of my pregnancy, but this time was determined to lose my baby weight within a year of my son's birth.
I knew that not only did I look better if I stayed active, but felt better physically and mentally and I wanted to be as present for my family as I could.
Having 2 young kids is exhausting and working full time, but staying fit not only helps me keep up with them, but it also helps me mentally have the space and time I need for ME. Above all, I workout for me alone because I know I'm a much better mother and partner when I'm feeling physically and mentally better.

5) What do you love most about Studio K-Fit ?
I got introduced to K-Fit by 2 friends and neighbors who had been going for some time. I used to pass by it all the time because I am always at Marsh Manor and was always curious about it. What I love about it most is really the people.
I think most people agree that the culture there is very supportive and all the coaches are so well-informed and willing to help you. I also love the schedule and how they have a variety of times for classes so it can fit into my schedule.

6.) Has losing all that weight changed your view of fitness and nutrition?
I wouldn't say it has changed my view because I think I've always known that it's not rocket science when it comes to working out and losing weight: you need to burn more calories than you're taking in and also eat a balanced diet.
But, getting back into shape at K-Fit has made me realize I CAN make it work and fit it in even with a busy life working and being a mom. That's empowering and motivates me to keep coming and working towards new fitness goals.

7.) Has your workout schedule changed and what motivates you to get your workout in after a long day?
100% yes. Because of the 2 little ones at home now, working out needs to be squeezed in between drop off, pick ups, busy weekends, etc. I find it works better for me if I can get things done in the morning and have the rest of the day to do work or be with the family.
It used to be completely different and I'd work out after work, but now from 4-8pm, life in the house is way too chaotic for that. On the weekends, I'll squeeze in a workout during nap time :)

9.) What you tell someone who is intimidated or discouraged in their fitness journey?
Baby steps! Start small and make small goals for yourself first. You don't need to start with the goal of "I want to run a half marathon" right off the bat.
Everyone's fitness level is different and recognizing that and where you are is key to making sure you don't overshoot or burn out. Also, if you're moving and working out that's already the first step, which is huge! Just keep doing that and the rest will fall into place.

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6 Reasons You're Not Reaching Your Goals

7/11/2019

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The road to success is often not laid out in a nicely aligned brick road. Sure, it may look like that when you’re looking at someone else’s current success, but what’s often not seen is the struggle of the journey.

In my field, there is nothing more rewarding than witnessing a person's fitness transformation and success. Whether it’s weight loss, or seeing improvement on their recent blood panel, or simply just having a little more energy to win the day.

Hearing about people’s wins —as Marie Kondo would suggest— “sparks joy” in me and that’s what keeps me motivated as a coach.

Having 16 years under the belt in the industry, I got a chance to see plenty of victories, but also plenty of goals not achieved.

Everyone has their reasons why fitness dropped out of their priority list, and maybe it’s even for legitimate reasons. For 9 out of the 10 of those dropped goals though, the commonality is very clear.

Here are 6 reasons You’re Not Reaching Your Goals and how you can fix them:

1.) Taking Responsibility. Your life changes the moment you start taking responsibility for everything that happens to you. I’m not talking about placing guilt on yourself. We are responsible for our thoughts and behavior, whether deliberate or unintentional. Try to be accountable on how you respond to situations around you. Refrain from pointing fingers to other people or situations.

Accentuate the positive. Lean towards maintaining a positive attitude when appropriate. Have you ever noticed that people who don’t take responsibility for their actions are negative and cynical. It’s always someone else’s fault. They are perpetual victims. When you shift that focus from what is wrong to what can be done to make it right, your stress level drops and life changes for the better.

2.) Seeking Validation. Why is there such a need to share all of life’s fun highlight on social media nowadays? Most would not admit, but maybe, because there’s the validation factor from others.

I know I want to be acknowledged when Brazil wins a major soccer game, so I post about it in hopes to get support from all my Brazilian supporters/friends, all while hoping to also strike a cord on all my Argentinian friends =)

Now, generally there’s nothing wrong with seeking support from friends. If done right, it can build strong bonds.

The fine line here is if those validations become your way of life. Do they dictate what you share next? Same with your fitness goals. Are you constantly seeking approval because you just joined a gym, or just started your nutrition challenge? What is the root reason for your fitness goals. Define them clearly by asking yourself—“What do I want?”

3.) Negative Self Talk:

Our brain is over 2 million years old and over those years it’s been trained to scan for danger, and avoid certain situations. It has also been primed to make assumptions about everything! Sometimes those can be correct, but often times we use the powerful hard-drive that our brains are, to work against us.

Investments of negativity will not produce positive results. This is like accumulating mini viruses on your hard-drive. You have to be your biggest advocate. Every time you put yourself down, or bring half the energy into a situation, you are priming yourself for a much harder road ahead.

Think about what you feed the brain. Put junk in, and you’re going to get junk out. Focus on feeding it the good stuff and you’ll operate on another level.

4.) Lack of Knowledge Vs Lack of Enthusiasm

“If I just take another course in this, I’ll be ready” mentality. We’ve all seen them, those that stay in school extra long out of fear to get out in the workplace, or out of fear they are inadequate for the job.
You can stay at home searching for “best workout to burn fat” or “best diet ever”, but most often than not, you already know the answer. Avoid excess sweets & alcohol, control you portions, don’t go over your daily caloric limit, and exercise consistently.

The industry makes billions off preying on people who have a fear based mentality about their health.

Shift your focus to things that are going to move the needle; The action steps. What time and day are you going to workout? Who can you get as an accountability partner? This can be a friend, family, a trainer or even the people you take class with.

Attitude, Effort and Enthusiasm are far more important factors when it comes to getting into a consistent fitness regimen.

5.) Adversity Quotient (AQ)

AQ is refers to the ability for a person to deal with adversity in his/her life. I have never met anyone without any challenges in their life. The fact is, obstacles are a part of life. Don’t let them define who you are or deviate you from your goals. Instead learn to embrace them and label them exactly for what they are; a challenge.

In a challenge, there is the beginning phase and the end phase. You either win or your learn. You don’t lose. Ever.

6.) Define Your Success

“Define success on your own terms, achieve it by your own rules, and build a life you’re proud to live.” -– Anne Sweeney

What motivates you to get in shape? What does being in shape mean to you? What activities inspire you? What group of people inspire you? Your friends and family may have different ideas, and that’s ok.

Everyone is on a different path with different goals. You don’t have to complete a marathon to feel successful. Simply being able to walk with friends on a weekly basis may be your idea of success (and that’s probably a healthier option too :)

Believe in yourself and have the confidence to follow through with what you believe success means.

It comes down to having the confidence to be comfortable with the uncomfortable, staying on your lane and being honesty with yourself. Are you truly doing your best to achieve your own goals and are you following the right path without the needing of approval by others.

See you at the studio!

Committed to your health,
Kendrick

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5 Ways to Fine Tune Your Mindset

6/25/2019

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Constructive self-evaluation is important because we get to reflect on things that have happened.
It also gives us insight into how we can grow and do things differently in the future.
Self-reflection is considerate and respectful inner dialogue.

Negative self-talk, on the other hand, drains our energy and confidence; triggers feelings of shame, sadness, frustration, embarrassment and hopelessness. It interferes with our progress and prevents us from moving forward.

Many studies show that harsh self-criticism causes higher levels of stress, anxiety and depression.

Now some good news! We CAN learn to speak to ourselves in a kinder and more respectful manner… but of course any change comes with practice.

Pay VERY close attention to your inner self-talk and the conversations in your head. This happens all day long and if we're not somewhat conscious of what's happening, our lives can begin to spiral.

Here are a few exercises to consider when training your mind to think differently:
(Some of these might seem a little out there, but if you stay open-minded, this could have an incredible impact on you!)

1. What would you say to a friend who is in the same situation? How would you talk to them? What advice would you give? Or… what would your best and dearest friends say to you in those moments?

2. Be mindful of your thoughts and instead of telling yourself: “I’m so disorganized!” train yourself for success, "I’m not as organized as I’d like to be so I’m going to commit to cleaning one area of my home each week until I feel more organized."

3. Give your inner critic a name… it will be hard for you to take those inner remarks seriously if you say: “Oh, here’s that old Nag again!”
Brené Brown, PhD, a research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work and author of The Gifts of Imperfection, calls hers “The Gremlin”.

4. Shame breathes 3 things: fear, blame and disconnection. If you have any of these emotions running around inside your head, find the courage to call someone and talk about it! Make sure this person is supportive, and you’ll probably end up feeling a lot better and possibly even laugh about it.

5. Embrace imperfection! Realize deeply that there’s nothing interesting about being perfect.
You know what else? No one ever inspires others by being bulletproof, but their willingness to mess up and try again!

Vulnerability is key to deeper connection.

I want to encourage you this week to change your inner-self talk to something empowering and positive.
First, just become aware of the conversation going on in your head, and then use the strategies above that resonate with you to help shift the conversation.

Keep in mind this is something we ALL struggle with at some point or another.

Committed to your health,
Kendrick

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5 Quick Tips To Slim Down Before Summer

4/22/2019

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1.) Eat “Bulky” to Slim Down.  Choosing “big” and bulky foods such as fruits, vegetables, soups, and salads will fill you up without packing a lot of calories. These foods are filled with fiber and water, as opposed to “smaller” foods that tend to be sugar-rich and dense with calories.

Many studies have shown that our hunger tends to be satisfied by eating a certain volume of food, (4-5 pounds per day) rather than the amount of calories per meal. Conclusion: Eating more bulky foods will help to curb your hunger and help you to lose weight faster.

2.) Snack Smart.  When starting any weight loss program, cravings can absolutely kill your diet! When you are craving fat-rich or calorie-rich foods, try and find a lower calorie food to pair with it. For example, when craving chips, eat it with lots of healthy, fresh salsa (which is low in calories and will fill you up!)

The good news is, as your body gets more accustomed to eating nutrient rich foods, you will crave these sugars less and less. This very important for long-term weight loss.

3.) Heat It Up For Breakfast. Oatmeal and other hot cooked cereals have only 1/5th the calories of dried cereals. Hot cereal packs around 300 calories per pound where dry cereals can contain 1,400 up to 2,000 calories per pound! In addition, hot cereal is more filling and can be a very nutritious way to start the day. A great addition to any weight loss strategy.

4.) Pasta over Pizza.  Pizza dough is very dense with calories, containing around 1,250 calories per pound. This is not even including the cheese, tomato sauce, or any toppings. Pasta is a much more health conscious choice when eating Italian. Your typical pasta dish, including the tomato sauce and vegetables will take you down to around 600-700 calories per pound.

5.) Focus on the breathing. Did you know that fat loss happens mostly via exhalation? Whether you're doing a K-Fit HIIT workout or going on a walk around the block, make sure you're huffing and puffing a little in order to kick start the fat burning process.

Despite what some "experts" say, there is no mystery fat burning zone. You are burning fat the moment you start moving (the ratio changes as you exercise; the further into the workout, the more fat you burn). Focus on activating bigger muscle groups by doing squats, pushups, lunges, rowing, biking. Weight bearing exercise will also help to maintain/ increase bone density which is very important to help prevent osteoporosis. Try to find at least 15 minutes in your day to do some form of exercise. Good for the body, good for the mind.

If you're looking for other ways to slim down, make sure to check out our 28 Day Summer Slim Down Challenge starting next month. Our last round in January saw participants lose an average of 9.5 lbs (click image below for details).

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8 Simple Tips To Achieve Your Best Shape

4/10/2019

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The idea of getting in phenomenal shape is usually an overwhelming thought by many. There's a tendency to think that only that gruesome Rocky type of workouts and eating oatmeal, kale salads, and salmon daily is the only way to get in amazing shape.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

Sure, you need to find a different gear to operate from, but getting in the best shape of your life does not require that obsessed mentality.

Most of the things that you can do to fine tune your body & health are relatively easy and it can be implemented right away.

Here are 8 things to help on your quest:

1.) Shift your focus to habits, not end goal.

Most people get caught up in the final goal (ex: losing 30 pounds) and completely lose sight of the process. It starts with a single step. It may be putting the alarm on, then getting out of bed when the alarm goes off, putting your running shoes on, and so forth.

Reverse engineer the process and visualize each step.

The focus should be on each action step, not on the end result. Focusing on the process will eventually take you the finishing line.

2.) Get Specific.

Instead of saying: " I want to lose 30 pounds." Be more specific by placing specific timeline and actions.

"I want to go to the gym 3x per week for the next 4 months and drop my junk food habits by 50% each week and add one more vegetable to my plate each day"

Break down your ultimate goal into daily goals and cross them out (actually do that in a calendar) each time you complete them. Every nutrition challenge we've had, we require participants to mark down an "X" on a google sheet doc if they completed the day without sugar, alcohol or over 100g of heavy starch.

The result is incredible and so consistent year after year; the people that mark down daily are more psychologically in tune and conscious of what they are eating and over 80% of participants that mark down their daily "X" during the entire challenge lose the weight required.
That's what builds momentum! Speaking of which...

3.) Momentum Creates Motivation.

Despite what you may have been taught to believe, motivation doesn't just happen. You have to create it.

Sometimes motivation comes from watching others practice a behavior that we want to adapt, but that is very short lived.

A more sustainable way is learning how to develop our own motivation by building momentum with the 'just do it' attitude.

Have you ever started washing a couple dishes and then ended up cleaning a few extra, then wiping all the countertop, stovetop and even microwave? Or you started cleaning something out of the garage and found yourself tackling boxes even 2 hours later.

That's momentum in action and the hardest part is starting out. Once you get going, you start to immediately build motivation to finish the project. This works amazingly well for workouts too. Just get your butt to the gym! Once you're there, you're going to do something.

At K-Fit, you don't even have to think, we'll have the workout of the day all planned out so all you need to do is show up!

You know our coaches will make you do something once you get there =)

4.) Plan it out.

This one is so important. Simply putting on the schedule when you're going to workout or when you're going to do your meal prep can change your life.
Speaking of meal prep, that is the number 1 way to start eating healthier.
There are several key reasons why everyone should be doing meal preps:

-Saves time during the rest of the week
-You're able to plan MUCH healthier meals
- You're able to practice (and teach others) eating in moderation
-Saves money from eating out. You're also able to buy the proper ingredients without having food going to waste.
-You can spend time on things that really matter (instead of spending 1-2 hours every night in the kitchen after a long day).

I recommend reading the blog, checking out some Youtube videos (HERE is a good one), buy some bento boxes (plenty HERE) and get to work!

Initially, the first couple times you do it, it may take a little longer...but once you get the hang of it, you'll be doing it on a weekly basis.

Did you now that here at K-Fit we have our very own master chef on call? Well, not technically, but we do have an incredibly talented chef, Theresa Rowland who's a member (and is awesome!). She will sit down with you and your family to come up with some meal prep and recipe ideas suitable for your lifestyle. Email me if you're interested.

5.) Reduce Decision Fatigue.

Let's face it, you have enough on your plate (no pun intended) with several decisions that you have to make all day long. Decision fatigue is a real thing and it affects us the most when we're hungry and also when we're tired (usually at the end of the day).

Decisions based around food and what to do eat can be very draining, especially when you're hungry or for some people hangry.

And when that happens, we usually make the wrong decisions.

Shift your decision making to things that are more important in your life. In regards to food, follow #4 to plan it out so you can add structure to your nutrition and achieve a level of health you've never experienced!

6.) Front load your calories.

Aim to eat most of your daily calories before 3pm (at least 3/4 of it). If you’re not exercising, try to eat your complex carbs for breakfast and lunch. If you do workout, add a serving of complex carb for dinner time. Veggies (which are carbohydrates) can be consumed at any time. Legumes also make the winner's circle and can be consumed at any time since they are very nutrient dense.

7.) Clean your environment.

Simple and effective. Out of sight, out of mind. If you leave that pint of ice cream in the house, you will eat it. Get the junk out of the house, and you'll improve your eating habits 10x!

8.) Maximize Your Workout Time.
Many of us don't have the time to workout for hours on end. We want to get in, get it done, and get out (hopefully feeling better than when we came in). Now, this can be done in many ways, but the very best way--in my very bias opinion--is K-FIT HIIT.

The K-Fit HIIT was originally designed as a low impact, high intensity cross training workout for a group of runners I was training. Little did I knew, it would become the studio's signature class with 28 sessions weekly.

Over the years, I've seen some pretty incredible transformations in participants' weight loss, muscle tone, energy level, blood panel readings, and simply overall well being.

You get core, full body functional training, interval sets utilizing both pull/push levers of the body and some pretty awesome coaches to make sure you're doing it right, and turning it up just for you when you need it. Oh yeah, and you'll be burning no less than 500 calories per session.

If you can't get into the studio for the K-Fit HIIT, just make sure to add some intensity to your workouts. Even if it's just a walk, throw some speed walking or jogging pick ups.

Then find a bench after your walk and do some step ups, pushups and dips.

The more muscle groups and energy systems you can engage, the better the results.

And remember, fat is lost via exhalation, so as long as those heavy breathing sessions outweigh the heavy eating sessions, you'll be in good shape. Literally.

Choices are all up to you. With nutrition and fitness you have the power to choose and absolutely change your life. Take advantage of these choices.

Committed to your health,
Coach Kendrick

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22lbs Leaner and Stronger

4/3/2019

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Every so often, we like to acknowledge a member of K-Fit that has put in that extra effort. Someone who not only embraces our culture so well, but also inspires other members with their positive energy and fitness work ethic. Brittany is one of those people and this month we wanted to put the spotlight on her.

Let's dive in and learn a little more about Brittany and how she developed a healthier lifestyle, got significantly stronger and even recovered from injuries in the past year at K-Fit.

1) Where's your Hometown?

My home was in Newark, CA, but I went to school in Palo Alto and then Fremont, CA.

2) Share 3 Fun Facts about yourself.

Born in Panama.
I have 2 dogs, 2 cats, and a snake.... but it's not enough pets.
I got to do an exclusive interview with Allen Ginsburg for my college radio news show.

3) Favorite (Healthy) Food

Homemade "refried beans" made with a combination of pinto and black beans, tomatoes, onions, garlic, salsa and a smidge of butter. It's about half vegetables, but all pureed together so my kids don't realize!

4) Share a little about your story...

I grew up in the East Bay, then moved to New York for college. I lived on the east coast for 9.5 out of 11 years, and the other year and a half I was living in Taiwan. My husband and I met in college, so we like to joke that fear of actual dating will keep us together. I wasn't even able to manage parties and bars. While we were living in Taiwan, we had the opportunity to travel throughout southeast Asia and see some of the most amazing sites in the world. We hiked along the top of the unrestored section of the Great Wall of China and didn't see another person for hours.

We travelled by boat from Thailand to Cambodia and saw as the scenery became more and more poor until even basic farming knowledge had clearly been lost. We got to try such an astonishing variety of food, including a sautéed spider that tasted like soft-shell crab.

At Angor Wat, our local guide (we couldn't resist hiring him - his name was Sauron, and we are huge Lord of the Rings fans) would mock the foreigners running along the river for exercise. "Nothing is chasing them! Why do they run?" he would ask. Obesity is not a problem there, and locals routinely scale palm trees to collect coconuts. I never got used to seeing men with machine guns walking the streets of Myanmar. And the Malaysian movie-rating system was so different we were mesmerized.

I am now a pediatrician, having done medical school in Philadelphia and residency in Oakland. After residency, I spent about a decade working with sick newborns a Lucile Packard. My group would attend high risk deliveries, do newborn resuscitation when needed, and then take care of those babies who were sick enough to need hospitalization but not so sick that they needed a neonatologist.

I loved the work - I got to save a life on a regular basis and yet 95% of what I did was happy.

However, this was also when I started learning that I need to listen to my body. Changing circadian rhythms (going back and forth between day and night shifts) was hard on me, and started making me sick. Choosing to leave Stanford was difficult, but it was the start of my journey towards better health. I now do part-time work in urgent care at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center and I am launching a new business called Newborn Transitions. I will get to incorporate all my passions - newborn medicine, lactation, and working with families to make early parenting less stressful.

5) What do you love most about Studio K-Fit ?

The ever-changing combination of exercises makes every workout different, and moving between the stations prevents boredom for those of us with a short attention span.

6) Least favorite exercise or piece of equipment..?

Anything involving step-ups... it reminds me how far to go I have on my core stabilization!

7) Has losing all that weight changed your view of fitness and nutrition?

So far, I have lost 22 pounds in the year since I joined, and this is the first time I have ever successfully lost weight in my life. What has changed the most in my view of fitness and nutrition revolves around patience and forgiveness.

I used to create strict diets for myself with intense workout regimens, and then I would have a bad day (usually around day 3-4), break the diet, and feel bad. It would all unravel from there. Learning to try and make small changes, and then be okay with occasionally breaking the rules for special events, has made all the difference.

And hydration - I never really realized how much I would crave sweets when I was thirsty. Starting the day with a big glass of water has changed a lot about how my body functions during the day. I have learned to incorporate vegetables into every meal, even breakfast, and it has helped my energy level a lot.

Studio K-fit is also the first time I have ever regularly done any weight lifting. I have noticed my shoulders getting more stabilized, my stance being stronger, my posture is better and my core is much stronger. When I started, I would wake up every morning with a sore back, and sleeping on my back was an impossibility - every time I tried I would wake up with a spasm in the middle of the night. I threw my back out every time I tried doing sit ups.

Now, I can make it through 30 sit ups during a workout with punches, and it's just another exercise. I sleep on my back comfortably - which is a lifesaver since I have shoulder injuries - and I save a shocking amount of money in chiropractic bills. Studio K-fit almost pays for itself in that respect!

8) Has your workout schedule changed and what motivates you to get your workout in after a long day?

I started off trying to come in at 6:00am one day a week, and I have learned that a schedule like that will never be sustainable for me. I recognize that I don't do well early in the morning, and so I do later morning workouts. I also no longer need to motivate to come in; the atmosphere is so pleasant and I feel so good when it is done that I look forward to my workouts.

Initially, I was honestly motivated by the fact that I was paying for it. If I'm paying for it, I have motivation to do it or it's money wasted. At least if it's a class and someone knows I'm supposed to be there. This probably comes back to the accountability that we talk about. If I am scheduled to be somewhere, I make a point to show up. I have always thought that 90% of accomplishing what we set out to do in life is showing up.

9.) What you tell someone who is intimidated or discouraged in their fitness journey?

When it comes to exercise, if you don't enjoy it, you won't do it. Don't force yourself into an activity you hate. There are a million different ways out there to exercise, and various magazines will tell you every week what new thing is "the best." The best exercise is the exercise you will do. For me, the positive environment, knowledgeable trainers and good people at Studio K-fit make all the difference. The other thing I remind myself is that, although it is important to set goals and achieve them, I spend more time on the journey than at the finish line. I like to keep the journey interesting.

One of the things I have most appreciated about Studio K-fit is their willingness to accommodate injuries. After my injuries, the first thing my physical therapist asked me, with a smirk, was whether or not the workout studio had asked me to not come back.

Apparently, that has happened to a lot of his patients with their workout places not wanting them there while recovering from an injury because they are a “liability.” I am extremely grateful that K-Fit's approach is to accommodate and help rebuild. They trust and support their clients, which helps cement loyalty... at least from me.

Brittany

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De-stress & Organize Your Life For Healthier Living

3/21/2019

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Have you ever read The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell? It’s a GREAT book that has several powerful messages.
In chapter 7, John says "Most people allow their lives to simply happen to them. They float along. They wait. They react. And by the time a large portion of their life is behind them, they realize that they should have been more proactive and strategic."

I think we can all relate to this as most of us have been guilty of simply floating along reacting to everything that happens. But when it gets out of control and we feel the stress building up in our lives, we have to step back and look at our lifestyle systems.

What are Lifestyle Systems? It's kind of like systems in business, but for our own lives.
You see, most businesses cannot succeed without two things in place.
1.) A team of value adders that share a clear vision for the business.
2.) Systems in place so that every team member knows what is going on and customers know what to expect when they come in.

We can establish a similar gameplan in our lives. First, by taking the time to put down clear values that matter to you and your family. This starts by writing it down and reviewing it with everyone in the family. These can include:

Dinners together during the weekday
Sharing something that everyone is grateful for first thing during breakfast
Doing at least 1 family hike per month
Eliminating social media use after 8pm
Sharing weekly chores

Besides the family system, you can also establish some personal systems in place:

No answering emails or going on social media within the first and last 2 hours of the day (this is a game changer)
Read 10 pages of a personal development book daily
Listen to at least 10 minutes of a positive podcast daily
Exercise for at least 20 minutes a day (a mindful walk counts!)
Think of one thing you're grateful for before going to bed
Volunteer your time once a month in a local organization

Every thought we have primes our behavior and the actions we take. If we fill our mind with toxic news daily, hang around people who complain about life extensively, join in those who gossip all the time, and carry on a sedentary life--by constantly justifying it with the "I don't have time" excuse--then life is going to run you and stress will continue to accumulate.

Instead, I encourage you to take charge.

Establish systems in your life. Although the structure seems apprehending at first, it actually allows for more freedom and much less stress when you know what's coming your way. If the first thing you do when you get up is check your email, you are priming yourself for the work that someone else has for you.

Instead take 10-30 minutes to yourself to meditate, pray, stretch, practice gratitude, go on a walk or journal. If you can't do it first thing in the morning, find a gap somewhere in the day to make this happen. This act alone can have a massive positive impact in your life.

Tony Robbins said: "If you don't have 10 minutes for yourself, then you don't have a life."

I agree.

I'm curious- Are there any current lifestyle systems in your life that work really well? Or any you'd like to add?

"Every day, stand guard at the door of your mind, and you alone decide what thoughts and beliefs you let into your life. For they will shape whether you feel rich or poor, cursed or blessed.” -Jim Rohn

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The Fit Identity

10/22/2018

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Here’s something to ponder- the thoughts that float through your mind on a day to day basis are not your thoughts. They are THE mind. Not your mind. The mind. Sounds simplistic, but one thing to realize is that thoughts don’t hurt you. It’s your attachment to them which creates a strong enough emotion that may hurt you.

Why is this important and how does it relate to your fitness and overall wellness? Well, the moment you start to identify with the thoughts about how you're overweight, out of shape, and have no time for anything because you're a busy parent, that's the moment you turn your biggest asset against you. The mind.

All beliefs carry with them consequences.

The chokehold is your psychology. If you attach to your thoughts, you start to believe them. Thoughts aren’t necessarily facts. Most of them are assumptions.

The financial stress of money brings on many stressful assumptions that you won’t have enough to pay rent or put food on the table.
Now, how many people throughout history do you think has had those thoughts? Too many to count. Often times, the thoughts that worry us are simply thoughts of the mind.

Worry is not the problem, because simply eliminating worry is an impossible thing to do. The act of worrying allows our brain to think through problems of life.

The question is, are you being resourceful and actually doing solution based thinking when worry hits. Or, are you passively going down that rabbit hole of victimization and 'woe is me' thinking.

Hang around a person that smiles, makes jokes and shows genuine interest in you. It’s nearly impossible to not feel good. Now, go on a walk with someone who is sharing the daily news and talking about the end of the world as we know it.

I think all of us know both of these types of people, and most of us would much rather spend our precious time with that individual who brings out the best in us. A person that doesn't trigger our fears, but rather engages our sense of hope.

Feeding the stressful thoughts encourages the “Someday” syndrome.

Some day, when I have enough money….
Someday, when I have more time…
Someday, when I find the right connection…
Someday, when politics are more stable…
Someday, when I lose the weight and have the body….

The someday syndrome is a direct result of believing your stressful thoughts and attaching it to your identity.

When it comes to your fitness, how do you identify yourself? Are you the, "Oh, I'm just lazy; not athletic; it's not in my genes; too busy with work" kind of person?

Or do you become resourceful when the mind starts to play tricks on you, and you tell yourself:

"Yes, I'm busy with other aspects of my life, but I know for certain that my exercise routine will boost me physically, mentally and emotionally and I'll be better for it, so I'm not going to skip out. Even if it means doing 5 minutes of an activity".

The strongest force in our personality is the need to stay consistent in how we define ourselves. If you're consistently putting negative labels on yourself, you start to believe it and become it. The same goes for the opposite. Believe in a positive you. Believe in a dedicated and disciplined you. Believe in the transformational you.

That's when breakthroughs happen. And no, you're not too old for those.
Keep training smart.

Committed to your health,
Kendrick

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6 Ways to Improve Your Life With The Defense-Offense Mentality

10/9/2018

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Back in 2017 Super Bowl LI featured the Atlanta Falcons vs New England Patriots led by Tom Brady. In the first half, the Falcons were in total control...handling both ends of the field. In both defense and offense, the game looked very lopsided. It was almost as the Patriots had forgotten they were playing for a Super Bowl.

By halftime it was 28-3 for the Falcons. Total domination. Total control. That second half proved to be one of the best comeback in football history.

Tom Brady took it to the next level. The Patriots had finally woken up and were playing like champions. They built an amazing momentum that carried them to score in the final minute and take the game into overtime. They continued that momentum to eventually win the game.

After the game, much credit was given to the Patriots amazing offense, including their leader Brady. What was not mentioned too often was how the Patriots defense was able to prevent the Falcons from scoring any points the second half. That Super Bowl win was indeed a total team effort.

They say offense wins games, but defense wins championship. I think both are equally important, although in different doses depending on the situation.

Knowing how to balance those two in the game of life is key to living your best life.

Much of what we do, we do either in offense or defense mode. Examples:

We are either in offense or defense when we’re driving.
We are either in offense or defense in the middle of an argument.
We are in offense (proactive) or defense (reactive) when challenges arise in our lives.
We are in offense or defense when doing business; marketing for new clients or maintaining current clients happy, respectively.
We are in offense when making money or defense when saving money.
We are in offense when eating clean or defense when exercising (for those that exercise to prevent weight gain) or defense when we go on a cleanse or quick diet.

Now, everybody has their strong suit. In sports if you’re a great defender, you may not be the best forward, but that doesn’t mean you can’t score goals.

What happens if for some reason you find yourself as the last player standing between the opposing team who has the ball and your goal? Do you just say in your head...oh I’m out of position, if they score, it’s not my fault.

No! You step up and get the job done. In order to do this you need to fine tune your weakness so you can become a more well rounded player.

Sometimes you need a little bit of both such as when dealing with money. Saving money falls in defense mode while making money falls in offense mode. You need both in order to be financially savvy.

Which mode of living drives your life? Can the opposite be improved in order to improved certain areas of your life?

If you’re an aggressive driver and react to everyone that cuts you off, can your life be improved if you’re able to build a buffer and said to yourself “You know what, there’s probably going to be X amount of fools on the road today, let’s just prepare for that”

If you’re constantly trying to prove yourself, regardless if you’re really right or not, does that ultimately enhance your life?

When something happens in your life, do you victimize yourself and let that event define you? If that’s the case, you’ll find yourself playing deep defense your whole life. Perhaps it would be healthier to separate who you are as an individual from an event that happened. Ie: Getting fired from a job is an event. It doesn’t define who you are. A divorce is an event. Getting a promotion is an event. You being a loving parent is a quality of who you are. You being generous is another quality.

Defend when you need to, but recognize when to counterattack. Games can turn around on a solid counterattack (just watch the replay of Belgium vs Japan this past World Cup on the last goal of the game).   Life is very much the same way. Have the courage to carry onward.

You see, events in our lives can be quite stressful, yet working on developing the best team within you can elevate your life to new levels.

Ways to improve your life with the defense/offense mentality:

1. Instead of waiting for a special occasions (birthday, anniversary) to do something special for your significant other (defense mode) try to surprise him or her out of the blue (offense mode).

2. Instead of completing the bare minimum (defense mode) of what your boss asks of you, go one step further and do a little extra. Always give your best. It will be noticeable and it’s definitely playing offensively. It may just score you some extra $$ in the future.

3. Instead of reacting to social media, daily news, gossip first thing in the morning (defense mode), try to establish a power hour in the morning where you get up a little bit earlier and do some meditation, reading, journaling, exercising (offense mode). I guarantee that practice alone can help you live a much more emotionally balanced life.

4. Instead of leaving on time (defense mode), give yourself a buffer and leave 5 minutes earlier (offense mode).

5. When you walk into a room, even if you don’t know a single soul, bring that smile that you’d like to see reflected back at you. Don’t wait for the hello (reactive), instead put forth that proactive kindness. It’s underrated, yet a very powerful trick to improving your life...and also making someone’s day.

6. Limit ruminating on the thoughts inside your head. They are often set off by sheer fear repeated over and over. Whatever you focus on expands. Instead, step outside yourself and do something for someone else. Whether you give your time to the local shelter or money to a meaningful charity, those are actions that can help you feel good.   It feeds the soul and helps put a true perspective in your life.

Remember, awareness is the first step.   If you’re not happy with something in your life, take a look at what mode you’re idling on. Are you in constantly in defense mode or on the offense? Do you need to balance things out? What happens if you flip the switch like Tom Brady and the Patriots did in that memorable 2nd half of the Super Bowl?

Do not give the past the power to define you. As Maria Robinson said: “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”

Go Get It!

Coach Kendrick

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